Making New Friends in College
So you're probably wondering on how to make new friends in college, am I right? For some of you this topic might just be silly, and just think of this as a basic skill, something you shuldn't be too worry about, but for some of us this is actually one of the biggest problems that faces us not only in our first time in college but in or first time in schools, work places, and just basically everywhere we go. In my case I happen to connects with others really quick but that's not always the case. In fact, in my college I tend to sit alone at the cafeteria in my breaks, or at least I use to. Now I just sit alone in Fridays; not the entire time but most of it. The things that I did to get some friends where to just talk to the people that where sitting right next to me in my classes. I basically asked them a question or two about what the teacher expects of us followed up by another question that asks of them about if they like the class or not. From there on there should be a flow of conversation going with that person, signifying that this person will gradually become a really good friend or just someone that will just stay as your class mate and nothing more. It's a fifty fifty percent chance but it's worth the risk. It's not like you'll lose anything, that person wasn't your friend before that. In my case I have actually made about two to three friends in each of my classes using that technique. Another way you could make some quick new friends would be by talk to the people that assisted high school with you that you just saw around and weren't really friends. I was actually a little surprised when I tried this. I wasn't expecting to built a connection with three other people. I was specially surprised to have talked to one of this people that attended high school with me because now we basically hang out everyday. This techniques worked with me so I'm pretty sure that they will do it for you too. If not there's obviously other ways to make new friends. There're are clubs that you can attend to and meeting but I don't know much about them.
I basically have no friends so feel free to hang out with me outside of class if you want! 👍👍👍
ReplyDeleteI agree with your technique that you utilized to make new friends in your classes. At times I tend to follow that same progress when I make new friends.
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